Talking with family about your estate plan: Speaking with your family about your death wishes is never an easy or exciting topic. Most people don’t enjoy discussing, or even thinking about what happens after they die. However, being open and honest about your wishes is one of the most caring things you can do for your family because it gives them time to mentally accept “who’s getting what” after you die. Instead of adding to your family’s grief upon your death, you are relieving them of unnecessary surprise and heartache when you choose to be transparent about how you decide to allot your estate.
Another positive aspect of clear communication with you loved ones is when the family is on the same page about what’s going to happen when mom or dad dies, there is less likely of the chance that brother or sister is going to contest the will. We’ve all heard horror stories about families being torn apart because they’re shocked by mom or dad’s will. This is sad because it is something that can be avoided by a simple conversation. The last thing you want is your children going against each other in a legal battle over your assets. Do your family a favor by being open and honest about your intentions.
At Hopler & Wilms, LLP, we offer free phone consultations regarding estate planning. Our experienced and N.C. licensed attorneys will make sure everything you have worked so hard for in life is taken care of. After you execute your will, go ahead and have that conversation with your family. They will appreciate it down the road.
